Friday, September 11, 2009

5 Ultimate Dating Tips for Men

By Gary Gerrald

Veering away from the usual awkward phrases and communication gaps, men can easily acquire the right traits to become a dating expert. Sadly, a lot of men fall victim to the humdrum of single life.

It's easy to get into a rut and decide that women just aren't interested in you. It's harder to face up to the mistakes you're making and fix them. Dating is all about having the right moves.

The five tips we are providing are intended to coach you in the dating game. They'll improve you approach and help you get that important first date, and if you practice, they' ll help you get a second date and then you'll be on your way.

Read the tips and put them into practice.

1. Clean up your act. If you look like a slob, no one will find you attractive. Your hair should be neat, fingernails cleaned and face either clean shaven or with neatly trimmed facial hair. Stubble isn't sexy unless it's on Brad Pitt. Don't sag, wear clothes that fit and look neat and attractive. You want your lady to look good for you. Return the favor.

2. Your mama taught you good manners, use them. Treat the lady with respect and be on your best behavior. No one appreciates rudeness. Watch your language. Vulgarity is a sign of disrespect and it reflects poorly on you. Women like to be treated like ladies.

3. Be on time. It is rude to be late for a date. If you are unavoidably detained, be sure you call your date and let her know why you are running late. Never break a date at the last minute. Showing up on time and properly dressed shows respect for your date and yourself.

4.Always pay attention to what your date says. Remember that in order for a date to work out, you must be willing to share the conversation. It's not always about you, and will never be especially if you intend to take dating into the next level. Be attentive and learn to share the spotlight.

5. The best way to make yourself irresistible, is to make your date feel irresistible. Let her know how attractive you find her. Compliment her on her good taste, her intelligence, her grace. Avoid any overtly sexual remarks, as they may make her uncomfortable and will certainly sound self serving on your part. If you pressure your date, you won't see her again.

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